By nature man loves variation and modernity. Immense
beauty and delicious food lost its attraction very soon. Similarly, man likes
variation in sex as well. In sexual activity, especially a woman gets boredom
early with same techniques. Intercourse with same method on daily basis makes
her bored. Bit by bit she loses her interest in it and then try to avoid it. At
last she refuses to do it. Therefore in order to make marital life pleasant it
is mandatory to adopt a new way every time during intercourse and foreplay. She
gets pleasure of variation even in a slightest change. Therefore sexologists
have designed various ways to do intercourse. There are more than 80 % methods
described in Kok Shaster. On the other hand western people have discussed more
than 600 methods. Except 4-6 methods, the others have slight
differences.
Sex Positions In Islam | Missionary
Position
Some Muslim writers have declared missionary method (man
top on woman) as natural and Islamic. They take the reference from this verse of
Quran, "So when he covers her, she bears a light burden and passes by with it"
(Al-A'raaf-189). However neither method is natural nor Islamic. In this context,
there is an obvious signal in Quran.
"Your women are tillage for you; so go to your tillage as you will, and forward for yourselves; and fear God and know that you shall be meeting Him" (Al-Baqara 223). Similarly, Hazrat Abdullah Bin Abbas R.A. narrated that at one day; Hazrat Umar Bin Khattab R.A. came to Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH and said, "Oh Messenger of Allah! I've destroyed myself! Allah's Messenger PBUH asked: What cause you to say this? Umar R.A. Replied: I've changed the method of my intercourse tonight. (i.e., he approached his wife from the back, but in the proper place). Allah's Messenger PBUH did not comment on the issue (as he doesn't have any jurisdiction to say). Allah then revealed to His Messenger PBUH, on the spot, the above verse in Sura al-Baqara (223): In another hadith, Hazrat Jabir R.A. has said that according to the Jews if husband uses to do intercourse from back side in to the vagina then he may have a squint baby. However; Allah has ordered clearly in Quran that "Your women are tillage for you; so go to your tillage as you will" (Muslim). Mother of Muslims Hazrat Hafsa R.A. has narrated that a women complained her about her husband that he used to do intercourse with her from side. Hazrat Hafsa R.A. has enquired about this matter form Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH. He replied that, "There is no harm in doing intercourse like this if the intercourse is being done at the same place (Vagina)" (Masnad Imam Abu Hanifa). The above Ahadiths reveals that at the time of Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH, there are many ways for intercourse were being practiced in Madina. Missionary Position This method is also known as King's style. This is the most common, familiar, and most used method in the world. Some people think it Islamic method wrongly. However; now a days this method is regarded as old fashioned and boring. In this method man is on the top of the woman. For easy penetration, pillow is placed beneath the woman's back especially when the woman is thin and lean and her buttock are also thin. Man kneels between the legs of the woman. Woman's legs are on both sides of man and some times on the shoulder. Some times the legs are joined with the men. When the legs kept apart, penetration becomes easier. There are many advantages of this method. For newly married couple it is a beneficial method. It makes penetration easy. It makes pregnancy easier. This method is also beneficial for those men who have less tight erection. In this method penis does not come out after penetration. For deep penetration and small sized penis this could be a better way. In this instance men put the legs of her wife on his shoulders. This method is also better where husband is shorter than his wife. According to some sexologist this is an effective way for discharging both of them earlier. Those individuals who perform intercourse for longer duration will have this method pleasant and superb. Missionary Position 2 In this method the control is possessed by man. He uses to do movements according to his will and take out much pleasure from the intercourse. The main advantage in this method is that husband can stimulate the sensitive parts of wife easily, which are necessary of her sexual pleasure and orgasm. Husband can stimulate easily clitoris, vagina, inner lips and breasts. He can kiss and lick her breasts. He can lie upon her and take pleasure by massaging her chest with her breasts. After penetration a woman herself can stimulate her clitoris in this method and this is necessary for her to get orgasm. In this method wife can stimulate the penis and testes of her husband that would be charming for him. However; there are some defects in this method. For instance, this method is worst for those who are the patient of premature ejaculation, means they discharge earlier, since in this method man ejaculates earlier. Although it is better for some men since its control is possessed by him. It would not be suitable if husband is overweight or obese since it would be difficult for a woman to bear the weight of her husband. Since in this method a woman can't move easily, therefore she can't take full pleasure by this method. Also since she does not possess the control over penetration, therefore some times she feels pain due to deep penetrations. Variations Of Missionary Position 1
After lying down wife lifts her legs and adjoin knees with her chest, adjoin knees with her chest, so that husband can hold her feet. Husband then makes strokes after holding her feet. In this manner, penetration would be deep and penis would stimulate G spot. It will give immense pleasure to her.
This is really a pleasant method. Wife pulls up her legs to bring the knees to her shoulders, while lying on her back. Crosses her ankles on each other and puts them on her husband's chest. Now husband penetrates. In this position G spot gets extreme stimulation via stroking. This method is charming for wife. In the meanwhile, if wife brings down her crossed ankles to the husband's tummy in such a way that the husband's weight come over her ankles. Then the pressure would be increased on genitals of both of them and they get immense pleasure. 12. In Missionary Position, wife puts her knees over husband's shoulder. Then straightens her legs and bring them towards her breasts. Then she makes cross by her calves. After penetration. Wife compresses tightly the penis with her inner lips. This method would be then much pleasing.
13. Wife lying on her back fixes her feet near to buttocks on bed. Then pulls up the buttocks little bit. Takes support by putting hands over bed. In this method after penetration, wife can rotates her vagina in any direction, and early ejaculation of semen does not happen. During missionary position, woman should give full concentration over her vulva and sexual sensations. Fantasize to pull her vulva up to her heart and then concentrate fully over pleasures and orgasm.
14. In this missionary position, husband lying down on her wife after penetration and weighs over his elbows. Then the husband takes such a posture that the base of penis would touch her clitoris directly. After that husband moves his chest up and down bearing weight on his elbows. Wife encircles her legs around husband's thighs and puts her heel over the calves of husband. Both of them take light strokes in this position just 2 inches long up and down and not take in and out strokes. Both of them keep their bodies in contact. This would create much pressure on clitoris. This movement must be continued with particular rhythm till the wife would attain orgasm. Although this is a difficult method but after exercise it would not only becomes easier but also would be an effective method for intercourse, especially for those women who find difficulty in attaining orgasm. Queen Position | Woman On Top Some experts declare it as an old method. In United States, 75% of women like this method. In this method husband is below and the wife sits over him like a queen. For this method, it is necessary that the penis erection would be hard. Penetration would be difficult if there is soft erection. Therefore, this method is successful in youth and less applicable in old ages. Since this method needs hard erection, therefore, it should be applied in early morning. As most men have much harder erection during this time. However; penetration should be done cautiously. First, wife should not sit over penis directly and straightly since it would make penetration difficult. Therefore she should sit over penis by making 45% angle. Secondly, she must be careful to sit over penis. Some times during emotions and excitements she sits on the penis in such a way that it does not penetrates in vagina. Therefore, in this situation, there would be a danger of bending of the penis and injury of its muscles. In this method, the control is possessed by the wife. On sitting over husband, her knees should bear her weight and some times fingers of the feet, therefore weight is usually not borne by husband. There are so many advantages of this method. For instance, the control is possessed by wife and hence she can move as much as she likes. She may touches her clitoris with the husband's penis as per according to her will. She can compress and rub her clitoris as well. This method is therefore, much pleasurable for wife. The penetration also goes in depth. Since she controls the whole activity therefore, she can increases or decreases the penetrability of penis. In order to get stonking pleasure, she may tilts forward to have kiss on her breasts by her husband. Husband can easily stimulate her breasts and clitoris and then she definitely able to attain orgasm. This method would be a good choice, if husband is so much tired since he would not be required to do any thing and all of the activities will be done by his wife. In this method, woman attains discharge earlier as compared to her husband. Therefore, this method would be an appropriate choice for those who suffer from premature ejaculation. Man gets immense pleasure by touching of wife buttocks or hips by his thighs. However; there are certain demerits as well. Since the control is possessed by woman and husband can't move freely according to his will therefore, there could be decline in pleasure. Secondly, it would much harder to keep penis inside the vagina and it comes out frequently during stroking. Variations Of Woman On Top 1
Wife sits over husband facing towards his feet. After penetration, lie over husband facing upward. In this way, her head . would reach on her husband's chest. In this method, movement would be much difficult for both of them, however; husband can stimulate wife's breasts. Along with it he could be able to hold, compress the hairy part of woman above the vagina. This is liked very much by woman. Husband would easily be able to stimulate the inner lips and clitoris.
After penetration, wife can do many pleasurable activities. For instance, by tilting forward and fixing her hands over bed can move forward and backward. She can rock, massage, kiss, buss and lick the legs of husband. Sitting straight between the legs of the husband, both of them can fondle the genitals of each other. Wife then can tilt backward straightly and then put her hands over husband's chest now move her base in circular direction on in grinding position. She can also move the base up and down as well. Husband can chap her back and hips, twiddle and massage on them with hands.
This is one of the immense pleasing methods. In this style, husband kneels down over hard bed or floor. Wife kneels over penis in husband's lap facing towards him. Her knees are out side to her husband's knees. For support, husband put his hands back side on bed or floor. Wife's both hands make circle around the back of husband. After penetration, wife can move up and down. She can rub her clitoris with husband's penis and can get pleasure. She can get pleasure by pressing her breasts against husband's chest. Both of them also can get pleasure by kissing and bussing. Side By Side Sex Position In this method husband and wife get pleasure of intercourse by lying down on the bed on their own sides. This method is easy for both of husband and wife and both of them can move easily. During this method an individual never becomes tired and it is also good while pregnancy. It is also better to apply when there is great difference in the weight and height of wife as compared to the husband, although, some of the individual finds difficulty while penetration. Especially, when the penis of the husband is small in size. This method is better to be applied while intercourse during early morning since during that time the individual has much erection. Side By Side Sex Position - Variations:
Rear Entry Sex Position: In this position, husband penetrates from back side. This is one of the pleasurable positions. In this, husband gets pleasure by the touch of his wife's hip. This is an easy way to stimulate the G spot. Husband can easily reach to the clitoris and breasts of his wife. Therefore, along with penetration, he can stimulate clitoris and breasts as well. Wife may also stimulate her clitoris. Although in this method, penetration is not deep. In this method, it is difficult to keep penis inside the vagina and also penis does not touch the clitoris directly. However; this is a useful technique due to stimulation of clitoris and to attain orgasm by wife. Variations in Rear Entry Sex Position:
wife sits on floor or bed on her knees and hands. She keeps her head down. As high as the buttocks would be kept with down head, as much deep would be the penetration and as much stimulation of G spot would be attained. This is one of the most pleasant methods. Husband may keep his legs either in or outside the legs of his wife.
Sitting Positions For Sex
This is like the same method described above, however; in that method wife keeps open her legs instead of making cross around the back of husband and put them beside her husband. In this way she can move her hips in every direction like to and fro and in circular direction. At last she reaches to the orgasm and attains it. Standing Position For Sex:
Some writers have declared this method unjustifiably injurious to health by taking reference from the Tibb-e-Nabawi (Sallalaho Alehe Wassallum). For instance, man becomes weak and may get nerve's problem like tumors by doing intercourse in standing posture. It has not been proved by latest research and it does not possess any reality. Some Specific Methods Of Sex: Wife stunted, thin and lean, while husband tall and healthy.
Sex position for couples, where wife is taller than husband:
Husband on chair and wife sitting on penis. This method should never be used where wife is obese. Other wise, he could not be able to bear the weight of her. Miscellaneous Methods
Other Sex Positions:
Few days back, a young man approached me. He got married two years back, however; till so far they did not get baby. In actual, intercourse had not been happened. His wife after two years went back to her father's home permanently. Medical examination revealed that his penis was just 2.5 inches long and due to this shorter size, sexual intercourse has not been established. If that young man came to us early then probably his issues could be resolved. As we already explained in "Sex Education- for all" that for stonking sexual pleasures penetration is not mandatory. Husband can give full pleasure to his wife by just stimulating her clitoris Intercourse For Pregnancy Similarly for giving birth to the baby, deep penetration is also not required, however; it is enough to pour semen inside vagina. In order to get intercourse that couple can adopt these two methods.
Husband lying on his back and wife kneels down over him. This would produce penetration but often this method for orgasm of wife husband has to stimulate her clitoris. In order to get offspring. The first one among these two methods is more fruitful. Variety In Sexual Life In order to get stonking pleasure during sex in marital life, variation is mandatory. We have discussed more than 40 methods of intercourse. Although there is not so much difference among each other, but for a woman, the slightest difference would be enough for sexual pleasure. Therefore, all of these methods should be practiced. Some of the methods are easier than the others. It is better, in order to get deftness in each method, to practice one by one for at least 5-6 times each. The best way to exercise is that, it should be done in imagination initially for first time and then repeated in real scenario. For this both husband and wife should read any method from the book then practice it. Initially, there would be some difficulties and mistakes could also be happened but with continuous practice these mistakes would be vanished. Initially we thought not to include these methods in the book for women since it does not seems decent and appropriate, however; later on it is realized that the practical difficulties could happen due to the unawareness of women. For instance husband wants to apply certain method but due to the unawareness of women she does not co-operate fully and he finds difficult in doing that especially when the method is difficult and due to these both of them becomes crabby. In common with this is a scientific reality that any combined activity can't be done in a good manner until the participants would not become fully aware that what and how the things would be done. Due to this ideology this portion has been included in this book. Women must know that according to the Quran and Sunnah every method of intercourse is lawful however; with reference to the penetration two things are strictly prohibited:
"Your women are tillage for you; so go to your tillage as you will, and forward for yourselves; and fear God and know that you shall be meeting Him" (Al-Baqara 223). Similarly, Hazrat Abdullah Bin Abbas R.A. narrated that at one day; Hazrat Umar Bin Khattab R.A. came to Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH and said, "Oh Messenger of Allah! I've destroyed myself! Allah's Messenger PBUH asked: What cause you to say this? Umar R.A. Replied: I've changed the method of my intercourse tonight. (i.e., he approached his wife from the back, but in the proper place). Allah's Messenger PBUH did not comment on the issue (as he doesn't have any jurisdiction to say). Allah then revealed to His Messenger PBUH, on the spot, the above verse in Sura al-Baqara (223): In another hadith, Hazrat Jabir R.A. has said that according to the Jews if husband uses to do intercourse from back side in to the vagina then he may have a squint baby. However; Allah has ordered clearly in Quran that "Your women are tillage for you; so go to your tillage as you will" (Muslim). Mother of Muslims Hazrat Hafsa R.A. has narrated that a women complained her about her husband that he used to do intercourse with her from side. Hazrat Hafsa R.A. has enquired about this matter form Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH. He replied that, "There is no harm in doing intercourse like this if the intercourse is being done at the same place (Vagina)" (Masnad Imam Abu Hanifa). The above Ahadiths reveals that at the time of Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH, there are many ways for intercourse were being practiced in Madina. Missionary Position This method is also known as King's style. This is the most common, familiar, and most used method in the world. Some people think it Islamic method wrongly. However; now a days this method is regarded as old fashioned and boring. In this method man is on the top of the woman. For easy penetration, pillow is placed beneath the woman's back especially when the woman is thin and lean and her buttock are also thin. Man kneels between the legs of the woman. Woman's legs are on both sides of man and some times on the shoulder. Some times the legs are joined with the men. When the legs kept apart, penetration becomes easier. There are many advantages of this method. For newly married couple it is a beneficial method. It makes penetration easy. It makes pregnancy easier. This method is also beneficial for those men who have less tight erection. In this method penis does not come out after penetration. For deep penetration and small sized penis this could be a better way. In this instance men put the legs of her wife on his shoulders. This method is also better where husband is shorter than his wife. According to some sexologist this is an effective way for discharging both of them earlier. Those individuals who perform intercourse for longer duration will have this method pleasant and superb. Missionary Position 2 In this method the control is possessed by man. He uses to do movements according to his will and take out much pleasure from the intercourse. The main advantage in this method is that husband can stimulate the sensitive parts of wife easily, which are necessary of her sexual pleasure and orgasm. Husband can stimulate easily clitoris, vagina, inner lips and breasts. He can kiss and lick her breasts. He can lie upon her and take pleasure by massaging her chest with her breasts. After penetration a woman herself can stimulate her clitoris in this method and this is necessary for her to get orgasm. In this method wife can stimulate the penis and testes of her husband that would be charming for him. However; there are some defects in this method. For instance, this method is worst for those who are the patient of premature ejaculation, means they discharge earlier, since in this method man ejaculates earlier. Although it is better for some men since its control is possessed by him. It would not be suitable if husband is overweight or obese since it would be difficult for a woman to bear the weight of her husband. Since in this method a woman can't move easily, therefore she can't take full pleasure by this method. Also since she does not possess the control over penetration, therefore some times she feels pain due to deep penetrations. Variations Of Missionary Position 1
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After penetration, husband brings his left leg between the legs of his wife and brings her left leg over him and then from back of his buttock holds her calf. In this way husband's leg will produce pressure over her clitoris and it will give immense pleasure to her. From here, wife can roll over to her husband. Intercourse can be stopped after she will come over her husband.
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After penetration, wife puts her leg straight between the legs of her husband and it will make her vagina shrunken. Husband will get much pleasure via applying strokes in this method. Aged wives must use this method. Further bringing the legs meet together will not allow the penis to come out easily. This is a useful method in loose erection.
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When husband is on the top of his wife then one leg of her passing through the front of husband's tummy go on the other side. After that husband penetrates from her side and back in to her vagina. Along with it he stimulates her clitoris with slippery finger. In this manner she will attain the orgasm many times. This position can also be adopted after penetration or vice versa. This is a pleasing method.
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Usually elongated penis is painful for women. In this instant, wife should lie down with opened legs and don't lift up the legs. Husband then penetrates after lying upon her. In this way she would not get pain, however; for normal sized penis, this is not an effective method.
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Wife opens her legs fully after lying down, as much as possible, then lifts her buttocks slightly and then during this time husband penetrates inside. In this condition after penetration, the stimulation of clitoris and inner lips would be done more by hands.
After lying down wife lifts her legs and adjoin knees with her chest, adjoin knees with her chest, so that husband can hold her feet. Husband then makes strokes after holding her feet. In this manner, penetration would be deep and penis would stimulate G spot. It will give immense pleasure to her.
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Wife lying on her back lifts her legs in the air and then hold them. After that husband penetrates.
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In order to blow up the emotions of husband this is an effective way. Wife joins her legs after lying on bed and she puts her feet on husband's chest and then husband penetrates. In order to get stonking pleasure, wife should compress and shrink the vagina off and on.
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Wife lying on her back and pull up her knees, then encircles her legs around husbands' elbow in such a way that her calves will be around her husband's arm. Along with it encircles her arms around husband's neck. This position gives deep penetration.
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In Missionary Position, wife makes 'L' with her legs. In order to do that, she pulls her left leg up and pulls her right leg away towards right side further. Means. Creation of right sided angle with the body. She holds her right knee with her right hand. Now husband with the help of his left foot will sit in between the triangle made by his wife's right leg and arm in such a manner that her left leg will be along her husband's chest. Wife can lift her middle part by putting a pillow beneath her. This method gives deep penetration.
This is really a pleasant method. Wife pulls up her legs to bring the knees to her shoulders, while lying on her back. Crosses her ankles on each other and puts them on her husband's chest. Now husband penetrates. In this position G spot gets extreme stimulation via stroking. This method is charming for wife. In the meanwhile, if wife brings down her crossed ankles to the husband's tummy in such a way that the husband's weight come over her ankles. Then the pressure would be increased on genitals of both of them and they get immense pleasure. 12. In Missionary Position, wife puts her knees over husband's shoulder. Then straightens her legs and bring them towards her breasts. Then she makes cross by her calves. After penetration. Wife compresses tightly the penis with her inner lips. This method would be then much pleasing.
13. Wife lying on her back fixes her feet near to buttocks on bed. Then pulls up the buttocks little bit. Takes support by putting hands over bed. In this method after penetration, wife can rotates her vagina in any direction, and early ejaculation of semen does not happen. During missionary position, woman should give full concentration over her vulva and sexual sensations. Fantasize to pull her vulva up to her heart and then concentrate fully over pleasures and orgasm.
14. In this missionary position, husband lying down on her wife after penetration and weighs over his elbows. Then the husband takes such a posture that the base of penis would touch her clitoris directly. After that husband moves his chest up and down bearing weight on his elbows. Wife encircles her legs around husband's thighs and puts her heel over the calves of husband. Both of them take light strokes in this position just 2 inches long up and down and not take in and out strokes. Both of them keep their bodies in contact. This would create much pressure on clitoris. This movement must be continued with particular rhythm till the wife would attain orgasm. Although this is a difficult method but after exercise it would not only becomes easier but also would be an effective method for intercourse, especially for those women who find difficulty in attaining orgasm. Queen Position | Woman On Top Some experts declare it as an old method. In United States, 75% of women like this method. In this method husband is below and the wife sits over him like a queen. For this method, it is necessary that the penis erection would be hard. Penetration would be difficult if there is soft erection. Therefore, this method is successful in youth and less applicable in old ages. Since this method needs hard erection, therefore, it should be applied in early morning. As most men have much harder erection during this time. However; penetration should be done cautiously. First, wife should not sit over penis directly and straightly since it would make penetration difficult. Therefore she should sit over penis by making 45% angle. Secondly, she must be careful to sit over penis. Some times during emotions and excitements she sits on the penis in such a way that it does not penetrates in vagina. Therefore, in this situation, there would be a danger of bending of the penis and injury of its muscles. In this method, the control is possessed by the wife. On sitting over husband, her knees should bear her weight and some times fingers of the feet, therefore weight is usually not borne by husband. There are so many advantages of this method. For instance, the control is possessed by wife and hence she can move as much as she likes. She may touches her clitoris with the husband's penis as per according to her will. She can compress and rub her clitoris as well. This method is therefore, much pleasurable for wife. The penetration also goes in depth. Since she controls the whole activity therefore, she can increases or decreases the penetrability of penis. In order to get stonking pleasure, she may tilts forward to have kiss on her breasts by her husband. Husband can easily stimulate her breasts and clitoris and then she definitely able to attain orgasm. This method would be a good choice, if husband is so much tired since he would not be required to do any thing and all of the activities will be done by his wife. In this method, woman attains discharge earlier as compared to her husband. Therefore, this method would be an appropriate choice for those who suffer from premature ejaculation. Man gets immense pleasure by touching of wife buttocks or hips by his thighs. However; there are certain demerits as well. Since the control is possessed by woman and husband can't move freely according to his will therefore, there could be decline in pleasure. Secondly, it would much harder to keep penis inside the vagina and it comes out frequently during stroking. Variations Of Woman On Top 1
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Husband lying on his back and puts his legs straight. Wife then sits over husband facing towards him in such a way that her knees directed toward husband. Her weight should be borne by her knees. Wife can't move to and fro after penetration. She may however; rotates her buttocks or hips in circular manner. She may move after putting her hands over husband's knees and by tilting backward slightly with weighing over her knees. In the mean while, husband can stimulate her clitoris and breasts easily. In order to stimulate clitoris by hand, oily thumb should be used. Wife can also stimulate her clitoris. If husband is suffering from premature ejaculation, then wife should swing or rotate rather than moving up and down. Along with it husband should stimulate her clitoris so that she may get early orgasm. If wife, however; move up and down then the husband would get early ejaculation as already mentioned and this would make wife to remain devoid of getting orgasm. If wife tilt forward, then husband may also give her immense pleasure by stimulating her breasts, via kissing and licking. In this method wife can easily rub her clitoris.
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Husband lying down facing upward and keeping his legs straight. Wife then sits over him facing towards his feet. Wife's knees should be on both sides of husband's legs. Her weight is borne by knees or feet. After penetration, like the first method, wife could move to and fro, she may swings, rotates in circular direction. However; in this method, husband would not be able to stimulate her breasts. Although in order to stimulate her clitoris, oily finger in stead of thumb could be used. Wife can also stimulate her clitoris by her self. Even buttocks can also be stimulated in this method. Wife can rub her clitoris with the base of husband's penis as per she desires and can attain orgasm. In order to move up and down, wife can place her hands over the knees of husband.
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Husband, below and wife on the top. After penetration, wife will lie over husband. Her legs could be in or out side her husband's legs. In this way, wife can easily attain orgasm via rubbing her clitoris with the body of her husband. Husband can buss and suck his wife's breasts and can obtain pleasure with the touch and massage of her breasts. In this posture, clitoris can't be stimulated via fingers, however; wife can move easily to and fro, up and down.
Wife sits over husband facing towards his feet. After penetration, lie over husband facing upward. In this way, her head . would reach on her husband's chest. In this method, movement would be much difficult for both of them, however; husband can stimulate wife's breasts. Along with it he could be able to hold, compress the hairy part of woman above the vagina. This is liked very much by woman. Husband would easily be able to stimulate the inner lips and clitoris.
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Husband lying on his back and pulls up his knees until they touch his chest (wife can also move his knees to adopt such a posture). Now the wife sits over husband's hips and by putting her knees on both sides of his hips. Her face should face her husband. Husband's calves should encircle the wife's body. For taking support, she would place her hands over husband's chest. After penetration, wife could easily be able to move up and down. Husband's knees that are touching his chest should be in between wife's elbow and her lower thighs. This technique should be tried definitely, however; caution is mandatory.
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Husband lying on his back facing upward with bending legs slightly and flattened feet on the bed. Then wife rides over his erected penis like a queen. The weight should be borne by the knees. Her face should face her husband. For support, she may tilt backward slightly and puts her hands over husband's knees. After penetration, wife compresses the penis via her inner thighs and then moves her whole body up and down.
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Some pillows have been placed over the edge of bed. Husband then sits over the pillows with hanging legs. After that wife ride on him. Her knees remain on both sides of her husband and she puts her hands over pillows. This will give deep penetration. Wife can move up and down with the help of hands. In this position, wife's breasts come in front of husband that can buss, licks and sucks them. In this method, along with deep penetration, G spot also stimulated very much.
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Wife makes her body slippery with some fragrant oil and then lying over husband keeps face towards him. Both of them spread their bodies straight. Penis should be inside the vagina. Now the wife presses the body of husband with her whole body. She skips over and rubs over forward and backward. She can also compress her legs that would give her husband immense pleasure. She can rotate her hips making her vagina to move in circular direction having penis inside it. She can move her slippery nipples over the chest of her husband from corner to the other. Husband would like this slipping and pressing of his wife.
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Husband lying on his back, wife sits over him in kneel down position facing his feet.
After penetration, wife can do many pleasurable activities. For instance, by tilting forward and fixing her hands over bed can move forward and backward. She can rock, massage, kiss, buss and lick the legs of husband. Sitting straight between the legs of the husband, both of them can fondle the genitals of each other. Wife then can tilt backward straightly and then put her hands over husband's chest now move her base in circular direction on in grinding position. She can also move the base up and down as well. Husband can chap her back and hips, twiddle and massage on them with hands.
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Husband lying on his back and wife sitting on his penis facing towards husband's feet, brings her feet in between the legs of her husband near his genitals. She can takes support of her hands by putting them on husband's thighs. Then she moves up and down. For variation, wife can put her feet near hips of her husband.
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Husband lying on his back, wife facing his husband, sits over him and puts her legs near husband's shoulder. Then she brings her body back in between husband's legs. In this way both of their bodies will create English alphabet X. Either they should hold each other's hand and keep on lying down in order to bear the jerks. Wife moves her hips in different ways. Compresses her PC muscles (their description is coming forth) and then leave them relaxed. This would create immense pleasure for men. Although in above methods, wife has to put her weight over her knees and feet, however; it would be better that wife's weight would not be enough other wise if would hurt her husband.
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Husband lying at the edge of the bed, keeping feet on the ground in legs closed, wife stands over the penis facing towards husband. On the other way round, the legs would open apart and the wife would stand over penis facing towards other side. After penetration, wife move up and down. This is a good way to do intercourse.
This is one of the immense pleasing methods. In this style, husband kneels down over hard bed or floor. Wife kneels over penis in husband's lap facing towards him. Her knees are out side to her husband's knees. For support, husband put his hands back side on bed or floor. Wife's both hands make circle around the back of husband. After penetration, wife can move up and down. She can rub her clitoris with husband's penis and can get pleasure. She can get pleasure by pressing her breasts against husband's chest. Both of them also can get pleasure by kissing and bussing. Side By Side Sex Position In this method husband and wife get pleasure of intercourse by lying down on the bed on their own sides. This method is easy for both of husband and wife and both of them can move easily. During this method an individual never becomes tired and it is also good while pregnancy. It is also better to apply when there is great difference in the weight and height of wife as compared to the husband, although, some of the individual finds difficulty while penetration. Especially, when the penis of the husband is small in size. This method is better to be applied while intercourse during early morning since during that time the individual has much erection. Side By Side Sex Position - Variations:
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Both wife and husband lie down side by side facing each other. Wife encircles her thighs around the back of husband and after penetration, both of them can move. Penetration is deep in this position and this is a pleasing method. However; there are chances of coming out of penis from vagina frequently. In this method husband can get pleasures in every aspect by the breasts of wife, especially by touching the breasts with his chests.
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Husband and wife lie on bed side by side in such a way that the husband facing back side of his wife. Wife either joins her both legs or lifts her upper leg. After that penetration should be done. In this situation, penetration would not be deep and there are chances of coming out of penis from vagina frequently. In this method, husband and wife can stimulate clitoris and husband can get pleasure by the touch of her hips.
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Wife lying on her side opens her legs like scissor. Husband then sits over her lower leg and puts his knees on both sides. After that he penetrates into vagina. In this method, wife would be able to control the depth of penetration and jerks. Wife can control the tightness of her vagina by moving her upper legs up and down and by making her pelvis up.
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Husband, who is left handed, lying over his left side. Wife lying facing upward and then she pulls up her left leg. Husband then passes through his left leg in between her legs. Now husband makes scissor with his legs and enter penis inside the vagina. It is one of the better positions since it does not produce tiredness. Husband's thigh creates much pressure over clitoris that would be pleasurable for wife.
Rear Entry Sex Position: In this position, husband penetrates from back side. This is one of the pleasurable positions. In this, husband gets pleasure by the touch of his wife's hip. This is an easy way to stimulate the G spot. Husband can easily reach to the clitoris and breasts of his wife. Therefore, along with penetration, he can stimulate clitoris and breasts as well. Wife may also stimulate her clitoris. Although in this method, penetration is not deep. In this method, it is difficult to keep penis inside the vagina and also penis does not touch the clitoris directly. However; this is a useful technique due to stimulation of clitoris and to attain orgasm by wife. Variations in Rear Entry Sex Position:
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Wife kneels down on floor, keeping her chest over chair or on bed and her head down. Husband then enters from back. It will give deep entry, especially when wife's buttocks are weak. This method should be avoided if wife gets pain and during pregnancy.
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Wife stands straight and then tilts forward. She kneels down keeping head below. She may also keep her hands over knees and touches the floor. Knees should also be tilted down. For easy penetration, wife opens her legs slightly. Along with strokes both of them can also stimulates the clitoris and that will give wife orgasm. In this method penetration is not deep.
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This method is very effective for deep penetration and for stimulation of G spot. In this method, wife sits on floor or bed on her knees and hands.
wife sits on floor or bed on her knees and hands. She keeps her head down. As high as the buttocks would be kept with down head, as much deep would be the penetration and as much stimulation of G spot would be attained. This is one of the most pleasant methods. Husband may keep his legs either in or outside the legs of his wife.
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Wife can sit on the edge of the bed in kneel down position facing towards opposite side. Husband stands at her back and then penetrates. As much low as the head of wife would be there, as much deep the penetration would be attained. Husband can stimulates clitoris in this position easily. Wife can also stimulate her clitoris and that would be useful for her orgasm.
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Although this is a difficult method, however; it gives deep penetration. In order to have effective utilization of this method, care and exercise is necessary. In this position, wife is on the edge of the bed. Her weight is borne by her elbow and her feet should be on the ground. From the back, while standing, husband lifts her legs in such a way that husband's legs come in between wife's legs. Wife legs are at the level of husband's navel on both sides. This position gives penetration in depth. Husband finds difficulty to bear the weight of wife, if either husband is weak or wife is healthy. In this method the sensitive parts of women can't be stimulated via hands.
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Wife lying on bed facing down. Husband lying over wife facing down in such a way that his thighs come in between wife's thighs. After that husband lifts his wife's body from middle part and while opening the outer lips, penetrates inside. While stroking in this position, he can fondles her hips.
Sitting Positions For Sex
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Husband sits over handle less and spring less chair that's seat is not too much broad (like dinning chair). Wife then sits over penis facing towards husband with opened legs. In this position, both of them can get pleasure of kissing and bussing. Husband can stimulate wife's breasts. He can also get pleasure from the touch of wife's hips. Wife, along with moving up and down, can move her buttocks to and fro and in circular direction.
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Like above method, husband sits over the handle less chair and wife sits over the penis facing opposite direction. After penetration, she can move in different directions. For instance, she can stimulate the testis while grinding over the penis. These things give stoking pleasure to the husband who can also fondle the back of his wife during this act. Both of them can stimulate the clitoris as well. Wife can rock forward and back ward after holding the knees of husband and tilting forward. It gives deep penetration and high stimulation. Both of these methods give early ejaculation of men and comfortable during pregnancy.
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Husband sits with crossed legs on floor. Wife sits in his lap facing towards him and encircles her legs around his back. She encircles also the arms around his neck. It gives deep penetration and G spot stimulation, however; stroking is difficult. This is one of the pleasing methods in that along with intercourse, kissing, bussing and cuddling with each other gives immense pleasure to husband and wife. Also husband can stimulate in this method, his wife's breasts with his hands in different styles and he can kiss and buss them.
This is like the same method described above, however; in that method wife keeps open her legs instead of making cross around the back of husband and put them beside her husband. In this way she can move her hips in every direction like to and fro and in circular direction. At last she reaches to the orgasm and attains it. Standing Position For Sex:
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Wife lying at the edge of table, keeping head facing upward. Husband then stands in between the legs of wife in such a way that her legs tilts at the knees and feet are kept on husband's shoulder. During penetration, husband can fondle her chest and tummy and make her stimulated. Similarly both of them can stimulate clitoris which is utmost important for female orgasm.
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Husband stands firmly on floor and wife holds the husband from front. Wife then encircles the legs around husband. This is a good method to stimulate G spot. Since in this method, the complete weight is borne by the husband, therefore; it is required that husband's health must be good.
Some writers have declared this method unjustifiably injurious to health by taking reference from the Tibb-e-Nabawi (Sallalaho Alehe Wassallum). For instance, man becomes weak and may get nerve's problem like tumors by doing intercourse in standing posture. It has not been proved by latest research and it does not possess any reality. Some Specific Methods Of Sex: Wife stunted, thin and lean, while husband tall and healthy.
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In this instance, never use missionary method. If husband would be on the top then his weight would not be borne by his wife.
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In this instance, husband should lie down and wife should be on the top.
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Wife tilts on bed with the help of hands and feet and the husband enters from the back. Wife's legs are joined together and husband's legs are kept apart.
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Sitting posture is also good, i.e. husband sits over handle less chair. Husband crosses his legs and wife with opened legs sits over penis facing toward husband.
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Husband sits over handle less chair with opened legs. Wife then sits over penis facing opposite side.
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Side by side method is also good.
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Husband sits at the edge of bed putting his legs on the ground and wife then sits over penis putting her legs on both sides.
Sex position for couples, where wife is taller than husband:
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In this instance, Missionary position is better, i.e. husband should be on the top.
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Husband lying over bed where as wife on top of him, however; full weight of wife should be borne by her knees.
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If wife's buttocks or hips are not so much large and husband's penis is of average sized rather than smaller, then intercourse should be done from backside.
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The best instance is that wife lying on table and husband penetrations between her legs in standing position.
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Wife lying down at the edge of the bed placing her feet on the ground. Then husband's penetrates in kneel down position.
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Wife lying down at the edge of bed and husband stands near her feet. Then he penetrates by placing wife's legs on her shoulder.
Husband on chair and wife sitting on penis. This method should never be used where wife is obese. Other wise, he could not be able to bear the weight of her. Miscellaneous Methods
Other Sex Positions:
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If wife is in last trimester of her pregnancy, then never adopt missionary position, however; in that instance, man on chair, wife on table or side by side position would be better.
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For easy penetration, especially during 1st intercourse, missionary method is much better. There should be pillow beneath the wife's buttocks. If her hips are thin either or pillow is thin then two pillows one upon the other could also be kept. Husband then sits in between the legs of wife and her legs should be on both sides of husband.
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If the penis is very much large then it may hurt wife. This method would be the better choice in that case. Wife can control over penis penetration in this method. For instance; husband is being ridden by his wife. If they want to use missionary method then the legs of the wife should not be too much elevated especially should not be kept on shoulders. Along with it side by side and forward backward position would also be appropriate.
Few days back, a young man approached me. He got married two years back, however; till so far they did not get baby. In actual, intercourse had not been happened. His wife after two years went back to her father's home permanently. Medical examination revealed that his penis was just 2.5 inches long and due to this shorter size, sexual intercourse has not been established. If that young man came to us early then probably his issues could be resolved. As we already explained in "Sex Education- for all" that for stonking sexual pleasures penetration is not mandatory. Husband can give full pleasure to his wife by just stimulating her clitoris Intercourse For Pregnancy Similarly for giving birth to the baby, deep penetration is also not required, however; it is enough to pour semen inside vagina. In order to get intercourse that couple can adopt these two methods.
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Wife in lying position and husband kneeling down between the legs of wife and then puts her legs on his shoulder. In this way 2.5 inches penis can easily penetrates inside. However; in this posture, it is difficult to make strokes, since more often penis comes out from vagina. The solution of it is that after penetration, husband stimulates clitoris with his slippery finger. Wife will get orgasm after stimulation of clitoris and husband's ejaculates in the vagina that will give birth to the baby.
Husband lying on his back and wife kneels down over him. This would produce penetration but often this method for orgasm of wife husband has to stimulate her clitoris. In order to get offspring. The first one among these two methods is more fruitful. Variety In Sexual Life In order to get stonking pleasure during sex in marital life, variation is mandatory. We have discussed more than 40 methods of intercourse. Although there is not so much difference among each other, but for a woman, the slightest difference would be enough for sexual pleasure. Therefore, all of these methods should be practiced. Some of the methods are easier than the others. It is better, in order to get deftness in each method, to practice one by one for at least 5-6 times each. The best way to exercise is that, it should be done in imagination initially for first time and then repeated in real scenario. For this both husband and wife should read any method from the book then practice it. Initially, there would be some difficulties and mistakes could also be happened but with continuous practice these mistakes would be vanished. Initially we thought not to include these methods in the book for women since it does not seems decent and appropriate, however; later on it is realized that the practical difficulties could happen due to the unawareness of women. For instance husband wants to apply certain method but due to the unawareness of women she does not co-operate fully and he finds difficult in doing that especially when the method is difficult and due to these both of them becomes crabby. In common with this is a scientific reality that any combined activity can't be done in a good manner until the participants would not become fully aware that what and how the things would be done. Due to this ideology this portion has been included in this book. Women must know that according to the Quran and Sunnah every method of intercourse is lawful however; with reference to the penetration two things are strictly prohibited: